Life should be lived! Think about that, then start writing down the things you want to do— yourself, with your family, with friends. Career, travel, hobbies and fun, anything/everything that is meaningful to you. Maybe they are “bucket list” items, or maybe an entirely new chapter for you. Begin to figure out what you would have to do to make any of these things happen. The more specific and detailed you are about this, the more they might occur. Or, maybe something else, and better, will. There will be costs involved. Go back and look at your budget/spending plan and make sure you are committing some of your income in some of these directions. As they say “living well is the best reward.” What that means for you…only you can decide.